The purpose of this blog is to get real women to come to terms with a heart break, have a support group with women who are in successful relationships and learn what we can do differently in the future to have a sustainable relationship.
I write romance novel and I love to read them. I've read them since I was 13 yrs old and I realize that most of my life, my idea of romance was what I read in these books. Is that true to real life? No. That whys its called fantasy.
This weekend, I got a call from a friend who was in an argument with her best friend over her relationship. Her friend has a 21 yr old relationship with a man that is well broken in of her expectations while she has a 7 month relationship thats still learning how to crawl. After an argument, the idea that love should bring flowers, pleading, weeping and nashing of teeth may be ok to her friend but it seems her man isn't like that. She said he will apologize and express his thoughts then becomes quiet but again, this is a military man/NAVY SEAL training. Anyway, because of this, in her friends mind, she has nothing, her relationship is no good and this man doesn't love her. I think this couple has a great relationship and there are other issues within the relationship itself but doesn't all relationship have issues?
Should she allow her friends expectation of her relationship to define hers? Is this relationship doomed for failure as this friend states?
Sunday, December 27, 2009
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